OOPS!

In my 50 things list I accidentally said this:
4) People feel that returning a “No” RSVP will hurt the couple’s feelings. What it really does is anger the bride.

What I meant was this:
4) People feel that returning a "No" RSVP will hurt the couple's feelings. What it really does is anger the bride when they either 1) don't return the RSVP, even if it is to say no so she has NO CLUE how many people are coming, or 2) return it with a yes even though they know they aren't coming.

I apologize for the confusion.